What to Do When You Have to Resort to the Emergency Room (When You Have a Chronic Illness)
A trip to the ER is no fun, no matter how you spin it. When you’re a chronic pain patient or someone with a chronic illness that can cause bouts of severe pain, it can be a complete and total nightmare.
A patient with chronic pain can help the Emergency Room staff to understand that their medical problems, especially pain, are a legitimate emergency by following a few guidelines and suggestions that will lessen some of the unpleasant drama of going to the ER.
Always bear in mind that the Emergency Room is a last resort, and Urgent Care will almost always turn away a patient with a chronic illness. Hospitals are so wrapped up in covering their asses legally that they have started turning away chronic pain patients much like Urgent Care does…
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Today, as I was taking a break in the shade while working on my garden, I saw the garter snake that lives in that area of my yard. He/She is getting really big and I’ve seen it enough times now to feel like it’s a pet. I really wanted to pick it up, but there was no good reason to, so I left it be. In the past, I have picked it up to relocate when I’m hoeing weeds so as not to injure it. Although you can’t tell by the pictures, the brown area on it looks like soft brown velvet.
Here is a little clip of it flicking it’s tongue, trying to determine if a cell phone is dangerous or delicious. Sorry about my hands shaking the recording!
Snake Story 2
When we lived in the old house in downtown, there was a railroad beltline track behind our house. My little tabby, Mandy, would go up the hill into the rocks and bring home little snakes to me. She is the only cat I’ve ever had that went after snakes.
Snake Story # 3
This one is the one that still makes me laugh when I think about it.
Back in the early 2000’s, I would visit my parents for 2 weeks every summer and we would go to the Sierra Nevada mountains, by Downieville, CA, to dredge the Lavezzola Creek for gold. I had a diving mask and snorkel on and I was using a powered high banker to suck the sand and muck out from under a huge boulder overhanging the water. I flipped over a huge rock and a water snake came swirling out. I screamed (in my snorkel), flew up out of the water, smashed the top of my head into the boulder- I then fell back down into the water, waving my arms all over the place and came up laughing and choking! I knew I was supposed to watch out for rattlers, bears and mountain lions, but Dad never said there would be anything in the water to fear. I was embarrassed but I can laugh at myself.
water snake in Placer County There is a video at the bottom of the pictures on this page- watch it, and you will understand the screaming! You have to save it to your computer first, the page won’t let me link the video.
Snake Story # 4 (featuring TWO snakes!)
When I was a wee girl, the parents took us kids to West Virginia on vacation. We went to stay at a trailer for a week out in the middle of nowhere, it seemed. I guess it was a “hunting property” and there was nothing but nature all around. There was a wood pile for bonfires and of course, a snake lived there. It was a really big black snake and we kids were dancing around, screeching about it excitedly. Then Dad took out a shotgun and killed it as it tried to climb up a nearby tree. I remember we were all silent, in shock, from the loud sound, and the bloody motionless snake. It then became an oft-told tale years after, the time when Daddy killed the black snake. I even painted a picture of the event and my parents had to explain the bloody-black-snake-in-the-tree tale to my grade school teacher. It was one of those “What did you do on summer vacation” assignments.
On that same vacation, my brother and I were playing in a nearby creek, catching crawdads. We figured out little ones hid beneath little rocks and bigger ones beneath bigger rocks. So he and I decided we would flip over this really big rock together and catch the big crawdad that just had to be under there. (kids, you know?) We stood side by side and counted to three, and flipped that sucker over. Water SNAKE !! We screamed and jumped up onto the bank and ran for the trailer. Dad was trying to get a description out of us so he could determine if it was a poisonous water moccasin or just a regular, mostly safe, water snake. It was gone in a flash so we couldn’t describe that one. We were afraid to go into the creek after that. I don’t remember if we were even allowed.
Not snake related, but a funny note about that trip: We heard a spooky-weird sound while sitting at the campfire one night, and Dad convinced us it was BigFoot! I know now that he was teasing us, but I went around telling people for years after, that I heard BigFoot one time.
This is probably what we were hearing!
Sad but true….
Chris Cornell, 1964-2017
Chris Cornell died early Thursday morning. His band Soundgarden played a show on Wednesday night at the Fox Theater in Detroit. Two hours after the show ended, he was gone.
For two days, I’ve been working on a piece to pay tribute to him, and it’s been a struggle. Usually when I have a problem like this it’s because I’m staring at a blank screen trying to figure out what I want to say. That’s not the problem this time. The problem is I have way too much to say.
I’m not going to sit here and claim to have been a huge fan of Soundgarden. I didn’t dislike them, I just had to take them in small doses. I was a fan of Cornell. I love “Seasons,” the solo song he had on Cameron Crowe’s movie, Singles. It’s a droning acoustic song about isolation and the…
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Eight years ago, when I first moved to this neighborhood, I brought 14 cats with me. More than half of them were being socialized to be re-homed (after spaying/neutering of course). My old neighborhood was overrun with strays and ferals and they were all reproducing like rabbits. I already owned several cats, mostly foster fails, and didn’t plan on keeping too many more.
Seven was my only ginger, and he did not like the other cats. He was more of a dog cat. The people who had him before had dogs and I’m sure he thought he was a dog for a long time. Anyway, after moving here, he decided to run away from home and move in with a family about 6-8 houses down the road. (They have old dogs.) I missed him but since I had so many cats to deal with, I let him go. I spoke with the neighbors and they said he liked living in their garage. Not ideal, but it was his choice.
Now, 7 years later, Seven is trying to come back to me and it’s not working out too well. I recently adopted another neighborhood stray whom unbeknownst to me, he had been battling for the past 4 years. Now that stray, Ozzy, is a permanent part of my household.
I once made the mistake of letting Seven in to eat when Ozzy was in the other room. He came racing into the kitchen and tried to attack him. I grabbed Seven and Ozzy lit into my leg, trying to climb up to get him. Now I have to lock Ozzy in the basement before letting Seven in, and give him a head start back to the neighbor’s garage before letting Ozzy out. The other morning, they sat on opposite sides of the kitchen window, growling at each other. First with Seven outside, and then later, Ozzy outside and Seven inside. I’m back to juggling cats again.
Source: Gratitude – for Calvin
INFJ (INTROVERTED INTUITIVE FEELING JUDGING)
As an INFJ, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you take things in primarily via intuition. Your secondary mode is external, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit with your personal value system.
INFJs are gentle, caring, complex and highly intuitive individuals. Artistic and creative, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. Only one percent of the population has an INFJ Personality Type, making it the most rare of all the types.
INFJs place great importance on havings things orderly and systematic in their outer world. They put a lot of energy into identifying the best system for getting things done, and constantly define and re-define the priorities in their lives. On the other hand, INFJs operate within themselves on an intuitive basis which is entirely spontaneous. They know things intuitively, without being able to pinpoint why, and without detailed knowledge of the subject at hand. They are usually right, and they usually know it. Consequently, INFJs put a tremendous amount of faith into their instincts and intuitions. This is something of a conflict between the inner and outer worlds, and may result in the INFJ not being as organized as other Judging types tend to be (e.g. a messy desk in an otherwise orderly work area).
The INFJ is a natural nurturer and is patient, devoted and protective. They make loving parents and usually have strong bonds with their offspring. They have high expectations of their children, and push them to be the best that they can be. This can sometimes manifest itself in the INFJ being hard-nosed and stubborn. But generally, children of an INFJ get devoted and sincere parental guidance, combined with deep caring.
- Creative – Combining a vivid imagination with a strong sense of compassion, INFJs use their creativity to resolve not technical challenges, but human ones. People with the INFJ personality type enjoy finding the perfect solution for someone they care about, and this strength makes them excellent counselors and advisors.
- Insightful – Seeing through dishonesty and disingenuous motives, INFJs step past manipulation and sales tactics and into a more honest discussion. INFJs see how people and events are connected, and are able to use that insight to get to the heart of the matter.
- Inspiring and Convincing – Speaking in human terms, not technical, INFJs have a fluid, inspirational writing style that appeals to the inner idealist in their audience. INFJs can even be astonishingly good orators, speaking with warmth and passion, if they are proud of what they are speaking about.
- Decisive – The INFJ’s creativity, insight and inspiration is able to have a real impact on the world, as INFJs are able to follow through on their ideas with conviction, willpower, and the planning necessary to see complex projects through to the end. INFJs don’t just see the way things ought to be, they act on those insights.
- Determined and Passionate – When INFJs come to believe that something is important, they pursue that goal with a conviction and energy that can catch even their friends and loved ones off guard. INFJs will rock the boat if they have to, something not everyone likes to see, but their passion for their chosen cause is an inseparable part of their personality.
- Altruistic – INFJs have strong beliefs and act the way they do not because they are trying to advance themselves, but because they are trying to advance an idea that they truly believe will make the world a better place.
- Sensitive – When someone challenges or criticizes the INFJ’s principles or values, they are likely to receive an alarmingly strong response. People with the INFJ personality type are highly vulnerable to criticism and conflict, and questioning their motives is the quickest way to their bad side.
- Extremely Private – INFJs tend to present themselves as the culmination of an idea. This is partly because they believe in this idea, but also because INFJs are extremely private when it comes to their personal lives, using this image to keep themselves from having to truly open up, even to close friends. Trusting a new friend can be even more challenging for INFJs.
- Perfectionistic – INFJs are all but defined by their pursuit of ideals. While this is a wonderful quality in many ways, an ideal situation is not always possible – in politics, in business, in romance – and INFJs too often drop or ignore healthy and productive situations and relationships, always believing there might be a better option down the road.
- Always Need to Have a Cause – INFJs get so caught up in the passion of their pursuits that any of the cumbersome administrative or maintenance work that comes between them and the ideal they see on the horizon is deeply unwelcome. INFJs like to know that they are taking concrete steps towards their goals, and if routine tasks feel like they are getting in the way, or worse yet, there is no goal at all, they will feel restless and disappointed.
- Can Burn Out Easily – Their passion, poor patience for routine maintenance, tendency to present themselves as an ideal, and extreme privacy tend to leave INFJs with few options for letting off steam. People with this personality type are likely to exhaust themselves in short order if they don’t find a way to balance their ideals with the realities of day-to-day living.
- Benedict Cumberbatch
- Carl Gustav Jung
- Leo Tolstoy
- Daniel Day-Lewis
- Cate Blanchett
- Agatha Christie
- Tilda Swinton
- Mahatma Gandhi
- Michelle Pfeiffer
- Clergy / Religious Work
- Medical Doctors / Dentists
- Alternative Health Care Practitioners
- Counselors and Social Workers
- Musicians and Artists
- Child Care / Early Childhood Development
INFJ IN SUMMARY …
Seek meaning and connection in ideas, relationships, and material possessions. Want to understand what motivates people and are insightful about others. Conscientious and committed to their firm values. Develop a clear vision about how best to serve the common good. Organized and decisive in implementing their vision.